alternative night out:

melted pleasure

A 2 Hour In-Person or Virtual Couples Experience

Is your body getting in the way of enjoying intimacy?

Does your back or neck hurt after sex?

Do you have trouble getting your body into positions that would be enjoyable?

Do you struggle with settling down and getting your body ready to be physically intimate?

It’s Time for Safe Sex: Take Care of Your Body Before You Take Care of Each Others’

So, I don’t know about you, but as we have gotten older, my husband and I are definitely feeling the aging effects on our bodies! We laugh together sometimes as we both hobble off the bed, holding our low back or neck, refreshed from the experience, and completely and utterly sore.

Then, waking up in the morning stiff and uncomfortable... 

Isn’t sex supposed to be a restorative experience?

Finding the MELT Method has been a game changer for our intimacy. Not only has MELTing supported and expanded our abilities to access pleasure individually in our bodies and together, it overall reduces and helps prevent chronic pain.

The MELT Method is science backed self care that enhances mobility, stability and performance in your body. Working with small rubber balls and large soft rollers, MELT restores your fascia (the supportive connective tissue that surrounds every muscle, organ, bone, blood vessel, and nerve fiber in your body) to a healthy supportive state. 

To read and learn more about MELT and the science behind how it works click here: 

As someone who is super hypermobile, my bendiness is often helpful in the moment, but I pay for it after any kind of activity (particularly sex!). MELTing before my husband and I are intimate is something that dramatically supports the stability of my joints, particularly in my hips.

For my husband, who has a physical job and tends to hold a lot of chronic tension in his shoulders and upper back, MELTing helps create more space and fluidity in his system, so he can move with more ease and without pain!

To experience pleasure we have to be able to really drop into a receiving space with our bodies. If we are in pain, that is going to cause more tightness and automatic responses from our bodies of gripping and protection. 

Certainly makes it harder to get in the mood! 

(We can want it all we want to in our minds, but if our bodies are feeling a certain way, there is no amount of thinking that is going to change your body’s response!)

When you work with certain MELT sequences, like the Rebalance Sequence, doing the moves on the roller brings your body into the parasympathetic state. It helps all of your tissues settle and relax. 

When we take the time to MELT before we connect, I find my body is WAY more ready to drop into receiving my husband.

MELT has been a key component of support on my journey healing chronic pain and helping my body and system down regulate and open up to pleasure and intimacy (after years of pain with sex). I want everyone to know about the healing magic and science of MELT!

Exchange

$555

(MELT products value over $229 with shipping)

(Session is $325 without the MELT Products)

Location:

In-person at Inspired Being LLC 37 Main ST Unit D, Belchertown MA 01007

or

Virtually over Zoom

What to Expect During the Time Together:

• Relax, unwind, connect, and laugh in a space designed to support you to both to enjoy exploring a new activity together

• We will learn the Soft Ball Hand Treatment, Soft Ball Foot Treatment, Rebalance Sequence and the Face Treatment to be able to repeat at home on your own

• Learn a ritual to be in together with your partner to help settle your bodies so you feel ready and open to connect before intimacy 

• Learn how to help your body engage in sex in a more painfree way

• Understand how to support your body to recover after a more intensive intimate experience

• Take home two MELT Method rollers and a MELT Method Soft Ball Hand and Foot Kit to begin your MELTed Pleasure Practice 

What else to know about MELT?

Adding a MELT practice into your weekly routine provides a variety of benefits from pain management, to overall health and wellness, to peak performance.

Learn more on the MELT website here:

Peak Performance

Overall Health and Wellness

Pain Management

Some of the benefits that I have personally experienced as a result of MELTing regularly:

• I don’t get up AT ALL in the middle of the night anymore (preMELT, I was getting up 3-5 times a night) 

• I don’t wake up with back pain anymore

• I don’t hurt all the time

• If I have a long day and do too much for my body, I can immediately get on the roller for a Rebalance sequence and it at least takes the edge off of the discomfort (mostly it takes the pain completely away). 

• I no longer have plantar fasciitis 

• My joints have more stability 

• I get longer relief in between any treatments I receive from practitioners (chiropractic, massage, acupuncture, etc)

• I recovered from wrist surgery the fastest my surgeon had ever seen 

• I can get my body in the mood to connect with my husband and be more open and ready much faster

Some outcomes my clients have reported with MELTing regularly:

• better balance

• no pain/reduced discomfort while intensely training for athletics (gymnasts, runners, martial artists, swimmers, etc)

• faster recovery time from injuries and surgeries

• reduction in anxiety and feeling more comfortable in the body 

• more access to feel/sense their bodies 

• more restorative sleep cycles

• consistent menstrual cycles

• experiencing more easeful digestion

• consistently less pain in body overall with folks who navigate chronic pain

 I am so honored to hold this space for couples. If you are curious about Alternative Date Night being a good fit for you, please set up a connection call below or shoot me an email and I am happy to answer any questions you may have.