Let’s talk about fire in leadership.
Not the burnout kind.
Not the hustle-fueled, override-your-body kind.
But the healthy, alive, embodied fire that fuels your business, your creativity, your desires.
For a long time, I didn’t have access to that kind of fire.
Like so many women, I was taught to suppress it. To stay composed, agreeable, stuck on the hamster wheel of expected productivity.
And when fire did rise in my system, I was super uncomfortable. I questioned it.
Was it too much?
Was I being too intense?
Was I wrong for wanting more?
But here’s the thing: fire is life-force.
It’s not something to fear.
It’s something to work with.
🔥 Fire is the spark behind creative vision.
🔥 It’s the clarity that cuts through confusion.
🔥 It’s the YES that moves you into aligned action.
🔥 It’s the energy that fuels leadership without collapse.
We often talk about nervous system healing as a return to calm.
But it’s often a return to desire.
To inspiration.
To momentum.
To unapologetic forward movement.
When we suppress our fire, when we work to keep ourselves “regulated” by staying small or digestible, we cut ourselves off from the very energy that helps us build what we’re here to build.
🔥 The offer you’ve been dreaming about? Fire.
🔥 The content that pours through without overthinking? Fire.
🔥 That urge to break old systems and do it your way? Fire.
🔥 The boundary you set with clarity and love? Still Fire.
Your nervous system doesn’t need to be flatlined to be regulated.
It needs range.
It needs rhythm.
It needs capacity to hold activation without tipping into overwhelm or shutdown.
This is the work I do with women in business, because you don’t just need strategy, you need space to feel your energy again.
To access your full range.
To be the leader who can hold what she’s creating without burning out, but also without playing small.
Fire is not something you need to fear. It’s something you get to partner with.
Send me a message if you’re ready to stop suppressing your aliveness and start using it as fuel.
